Never Point
Point is very offensive in some culture. It
is good manners to never point. You especially cannot point at
a person. It is very rude. Sometimes if you accidentally point,
the person you pointed at may overlook it but if you do it over
and over, it will become unpleasant to ignore and the person
will get offended or at least think you have bad manners, lack
education, and have bad upbringing.
Some people are not taught that pointing is
bad manners
In some countries, children are not taught
good manners well and they grow up thinking pointing is ok.
Whether they know it or not, people with good manners who see
them pointing or being pointed at think lowly of them. However,
most of these bad mannered people are impervious of how others
think because those who look down upon them have so great
manners that they wouldn't reveal their true feelings because
it would be rude to tell another that he or she has just
displayed bad manners.

Servers don't point
You will see that when a service class such
as a server shows you your seat, they do not point but use
their whole hand to let you know where your seat is or which
direction you should go. In the past, people use to point at a
direction to show you where you should go but nowadays servers
are more trained to display excellent manners so you will not
see people in classy restaurants point. However, you may still
see servers in cheap restaurants point.
Avoid situations where you have to
point
If you rarely use your hands, you will be
likely to point less. This can reduce the occasions where you
will forget and point. Also, whenever you feel the need to
point, use your full hand instead. It is more polite.
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